This ones for the girls...

I wrote this note on Facebook tonight and decided it was pretty good, so I thought I would post it on here.

and a side note...if you have not seen the movie "He's Just Not That Into You"...do it! It's so good! :)

Now for the note....


This note is for every girl who has ever:

1. Felt like she's not good enough.
2. Been told that she is just not good enough.
3. Been lied to.
4. Been cheated on.
5. Been taken advantage of.
6. Dated a loser.
7. Known a loser.
8. Continues to want the loser.
9. Has been fed a line of crap...something like "you are just what I have been looking for" or my personal favorite " I am so happy that God has put you in my life"
10. Found out he is cheating via MySpace or Facebook.

11. Finally...for any girl who thinks that he is going to change!I have news for all of you...He's NOT going to change. Furthermore, any guy who would tell you that crap is a loser and should be left alone! There are plenty of women out there who would give themselves up in a second for someone that looks like him, who is a smooth talker like him, and someone who pretends to care like he pretends.

BE THE EXCEPTION!

Don't let him take advantage over you! Know that God has a plan and a purpose for your life, and it DOES NOT involve you being taken advantage of and feeling like you are not good enough! You are a WOMAN OF GOD! Stand up and do what you are called to do! Don't let a man decide how you feel about yourself or what you feel you can accomplish. I believe with my whole heart that God has someone out there for you...be patient and let God work. SO much heartache and heartbreak would be saved if you would just realize that and wait on the Lord.

**Addendum**

I forgot to mention....If you are THAT guy that I just talked described...WHAT ARE YOU DOING? How is it fulfilling to treat people the way that you do? You're first to throw around the line "I'm a Christian" because you know thats what we want to hear. But next thing we know, you got your beer goggles on at the bar with some chick that you just met and next thing you know...that Christian thing just went out the window! You are doing nothing but hurting God's cause when you act like this....so lets be real for a minute...

a Christian seeks God's will for their lives, NOT their own. I am 100% sure that God's will is not in the bar or wherever you feel you gotta go to cushion your ego and get attention. God's Will is where he leads you...and he's not going to lead you there. Thats a fact.