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Saturday, February 7, 2009

This ones for the girls...

I wrote this note on Facebook tonight and decided it was pretty good, so I thought I would post it on here.

and a side note...if you have not seen the movie "He's Just Not That Into You"...do it! It's so good! :)

Now for the note....


This note is for every girl who has ever:

1. Felt like she's not good enough.
2. Been told that she is just not good enough.
3. Been lied to.
4. Been cheated on.
5. Been taken advantage of.
6. Dated a loser.
7. Known a loser.
8. Continues to want the loser.
9. Has been fed a line of crap...something like "you are just what I have been looking for" or my personal favorite " I am so happy that God has put you in my life"
10. Found out he is cheating via MySpace or Facebook.

11. Finally...for any girl who thinks that he is going to change!I have news for all of you...He's NOT going to change. Furthermore, any guy who would tell you that crap is a loser and should be left alone! There are plenty of women out there who would give themselves up in a second for someone that looks like him, who is a smooth talker like him, and someone who pretends to care like he pretends.

BE THE EXCEPTION!

Don't let him take advantage over you! Know that God has a plan and a purpose for your life, and it DOES NOT involve you being taken advantage of and feeling like you are not good enough! You are a WOMAN OF GOD! Stand up and do what you are called to do! Don't let a man decide how you feel about yourself or what you feel you can accomplish. I believe with my whole heart that God has someone out there for you...be patient and let God work. SO much heartache and heartbreak would be saved if you would just realize that and wait on the Lord.

**Addendum**

I forgot to mention....If you are THAT guy that I just talked described...WHAT ARE YOU DOING? How is it fulfilling to treat people the way that you do? You're first to throw around the line "I'm a Christian" because you know thats what we want to hear. But next thing we know, you got your beer goggles on at the bar with some chick that you just met and next thing you know...that Christian thing just went out the window! You are doing nothing but hurting God's cause when you act like this....so lets be real for a minute...

a Christian seeks God's will for their lives, NOT their own. I am 100% sure that God's will is not in the bar or wherever you feel you gotta go to cushion your ego and get attention. God's Will is where he leads you...and he's not going to lead you there. Thats a fact.

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Words Of Wisdom.

"When God says no..he has a better yes. Believe it." That is a direct quote from one of my closest friends, Allen McConnell. I figured I better give him credit when credit is due...and say that I have never found anything to be more true until now!

I have been having "relationship" issues...yeah I guess you could call it that. Well at the time I really felt like I was right where I needed to be, and that God was just going to work everything out, and that it was his will for me to be seeing this person. Well God snapped me back into reality REALLLY quick! And, if I wanted to be 100% honest...I felt the whole time I probably should have stayed away and guarded my heart more closely...but I was that stupid girl...for the 3rd(and its safe to say FINAL) time!

Back to that quote...I know that God was telling me no...there were a lot of signs that were telling me no...but i didnt listen. But, now that I have completely given it ALL to God..I KNOW that he has something out there better than me than I could ever plan for myself. It just took me being stupid ONE more time and letting myself be hurt this last time to realize it for myself. Maybe I am the only person who has even just been dumb over a boy...but I doubt that. I think that all of us ladies have that one boy that we are just stupid over...and its by the grace of God that we realize it! I am just so thankful that things have worked out the way they did...yes THANKFUL. I'm not gonna lie...I was hurt in the beginning, but I honestly know that this was God's will. I am thankful that I now have time to devote solely to God and my relationship with him. Without a strong and right relationship with God, I am never going to have peace and without peace...I dont see how I could ever live life to the fullest that God wants for me.

Well..thats all I got for now..I've got a paper to write! :)

God Bless!